There is a lot of information available to parents in this day and age. The problem is who do you trust to help you make those important decisions about parenting? Some of the information out available even contradicts what another 'expert' suggested.
I am excited to bring to you some of the most universal parenting tips. These parenting tips are embraced by many experts. There are some things about parenting that can be held as true in respect to parenting, no matter what your personal parenting style.
Parenting Tip #1: Love your children. 'Of course I love my child' is what you are thinking, right? We know that we love our children but as the day to day chaos of life takes over sometimes we forget to take the time to tell them. So seize the moment, any moment and tell them you love them.
Parenting Tip #2: Tell your child why they are unique and special to you. Giving children self confidence is one of the most important things we can give our children. A child with good self confidence can go out into the world and make good life decisions. It is important to help them trust in themselves. By arming our children with self confidence we can be confident that they are problem solvers and when a situation needs reflection they will trust their own instincts.
Parenting Tip #3: Model for your children by being the type of person you would like them to become. Children learn best by example, so be the best example you can be. When we just preach and don't practice what we preach, we send a mixed message. It's okay to show your children your emotions and frustrations. No parent is without ups and downs. You can use the moments to teach your children how to deal with the ups and downs. Show them that while your may get angry or sad there is a good and a bad way to deal with these emotions. Show them the outlets you use to help you move past the strong feelings and deal with the problem that is bothering you.
Parenting Tip # 4: Don't label. Using labels for your children such as 'good boy' and 'bad boy' can really sting deep. When a parent says, you are being a bad boy that makes the child as a whole feel bad, and parents don't want that. What we want is to change the behavior so it doesn't occur again. This is best done by separating the behavior from the child. When a child chooses to behave in a way that you call "bad" instead of telling them that was bad tell them why the behavior they choose was wrong. The truth is the choice they made was bad not the child. So next time this occurs watch your wording.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Top Parenting Tips
1. Tell your child that you love them EVERY day.
2. Show your child that you love them EVERY day with lots of hugs, kind words and physical attention.
3. Show interest in what your child is learning.
4. Let your child teach you.
5. Avoid comparing your child to others.
6. Encourage your child to read to you.
7. Develop a consistent and effective discipline plan.
8. Bring a solution as well as a problem.
9. Children must learn to feel good about themselves and believe they can succeed, and you must also allow your child to fail.
10. Teach them the value of money.
11. Show them you are the parent (not the friend).
12. Pick and choose your conflicts.
13. Have lots of "quick" conversations (travelling to school, to the shops, at bedtime).
14. Teach them to value time (let them see you reading, being creative, gardening etc.
15. When you make a promise, be sure to follow it through.
16. Allow them to think for themselves.
17. Model what it is to communicate openly, honestly and with respect.
18. Praise your child's kindness to others.
19. Read bedtime stories as often as possible.
20. Get physical with your child (hug, tickle, hold hands)
21. On occasions put yourself in the child's shoes - think as they may think, feel as they may feel, see the world through their eyes.
22. Let dinner times be a time for catching up on the day's events.
23. Be aware of your child's feelings and limitations.
24. Let them know they can go to you when in search of comfort.
25. Just spend time with your children, allowing them to be themselves.
26. Encourage their enthusiasm.
27. Teach your children about their heritage in fun and exciting ways, such as dressing up, cooking, dancing, listening to music.
28. All pitch in - A child is never too young to learn that team effort makes many jobs easier and faster - and often more fun.
29. We all make mistakes, learn to tell your child "I'm sorry" - this way they will grow to admit their own mistakes.
30. Tell them "that's enough" - noise, television, playing, arguing, sweets, etc.
31. Discuss sex and sexuality in age appropriate terms with your child.
32. It's important to encourage in children a sense of pride in them self
33. Children are our future - when we teach them well they will be the leaders of their life.
34. Remember to fit the method of discipline to the child's age and abilities.
35. If verbal communication fails, write a note (this can open doors).
36. Get to know your child's friends.
37. Ask your child where they are going and who with.
38. Be a good listener - ask and encourage questions.
39. Include your child in family decisions.
40. Be a living example of your value system. Show the honesty, generosity and openness you want your child to have.
41. Examine your own behaviour.
42. Catch your child doing things right.
43. Listen to your gut instincts.
44. Take care of yourself and your needs so you are better prepared to take care of the needs of your child.
45. Let your child take responsibility for their own actions.
46. Take care of the every day essential things - Young children need nutritious food, enough sleep, safe places to play, and regular medical care.
47. Discuss your expectations with your child. They may not agree, but they need to know what is expected of them.
48. Remember, making mistakes is part of the learning process - don't criticise.
49. Make the home as happy a place as it can be.
50. Make your own list, adding to this, of how you can be the best parent you can.
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Hyacinth is a Master Practitioner of NLP and a Master Hypnotherapist. She is a Coach, Consultant and Trainer. Highly regarded and ensures that her solutions are informative, exciting and presented in such a way to ensure all learning styles are catered for. She works with personnel at the highest levels in the private, public and voluntary sectors, up to and including members of the board.
2. Show your child that you love them EVERY day with lots of hugs, kind words and physical attention.
3. Show interest in what your child is learning.
4. Let your child teach you.
5. Avoid comparing your child to others.
6. Encourage your child to read to you.
7. Develop a consistent and effective discipline plan.
8. Bring a solution as well as a problem.
9. Children must learn to feel good about themselves and believe they can succeed, and you must also allow your child to fail.
10. Teach them the value of money.
11. Show them you are the parent (not the friend).
12. Pick and choose your conflicts.
13. Have lots of "quick" conversations (travelling to school, to the shops, at bedtime).
14. Teach them to value time (let them see you reading, being creative, gardening etc.
15. When you make a promise, be sure to follow it through.
16. Allow them to think for themselves.
17. Model what it is to communicate openly, honestly and with respect.
18. Praise your child's kindness to others.
19. Read bedtime stories as often as possible.
20. Get physical with your child (hug, tickle, hold hands)
21. On occasions put yourself in the child's shoes - think as they may think, feel as they may feel, see the world through their eyes.
22. Let dinner times be a time for catching up on the day's events.
23. Be aware of your child's feelings and limitations.
24. Let them know they can go to you when in search of comfort.
25. Just spend time with your children, allowing them to be themselves.
26. Encourage their enthusiasm.
27. Teach your children about their heritage in fun and exciting ways, such as dressing up, cooking, dancing, listening to music.
28. All pitch in - A child is never too young to learn that team effort makes many jobs easier and faster - and often more fun.
29. We all make mistakes, learn to tell your child "I'm sorry" - this way they will grow to admit their own mistakes.
30. Tell them "that's enough" - noise, television, playing, arguing, sweets, etc.
31. Discuss sex and sexuality in age appropriate terms with your child.
32. It's important to encourage in children a sense of pride in them self
33. Children are our future - when we teach them well they will be the leaders of their life.
34. Remember to fit the method of discipline to the child's age and abilities.
35. If verbal communication fails, write a note (this can open doors).
36. Get to know your child's friends.
37. Ask your child where they are going and who with.
38. Be a good listener - ask and encourage questions.
39. Include your child in family decisions.
40. Be a living example of your value system. Show the honesty, generosity and openness you want your child to have.
41. Examine your own behaviour.
42. Catch your child doing things right.
43. Listen to your gut instincts.
44. Take care of yourself and your needs so you are better prepared to take care of the needs of your child.
45. Let your child take responsibility for their own actions.
46. Take care of the every day essential things - Young children need nutritious food, enough sleep, safe places to play, and regular medical care.
47. Discuss your expectations with your child. They may not agree, but they need to know what is expected of them.
48. Remember, making mistakes is part of the learning process - don't criticise.
49. Make the home as happy a place as it can be.
50. Make your own list, adding to this, of how you can be the best parent you can.
All about relationships Visit and download free sample
To create real wealth for you and your family Check this out
Hyacinth is a Master Practitioner of NLP and a Master Hypnotherapist. She is a Coach, Consultant and Trainer. Highly regarded and ensures that her solutions are informative, exciting and presented in such a way to ensure all learning styles are catered for. She works with personnel at the highest levels in the private, public and voluntary sectors, up to and including members of the board.
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